Features
Compatibility Mapping
Rate your relationship across 20+ dimensions of compatibility—from values and communication to sex, finances, family, autonomy, and more.
Importance Rating
Separate how compatible you are from how much that compatibility actually matters to you, so you can identify the gaps that truly deserve your attention.
The Replacement Test
Imagine getting the thing you're missing somewhere else, then explore what you'd actually gain, what you'd lose, and whether you'd still want to leave.
WHO THIS IS FOR
You’re questioning the relationship.
There’s one thing that isn’t working, and you’re wondering if it’s big enough to mean the whole relationship isn’t working.
You’re wondering if you’re settling.
You love what you have, but you also can’t stop thinking about what you might be missing—and you need to understand the tradeoff before making a decision.
You’re looking for another way.
You’re wondering whether a mismatch in one area really has to mean losing everything else you love about the relationship.
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