Combining ancestral medicine journeying with world-class polyamory coaching to take your deeper into yourself.




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Your stay at our Ayahuasca and San Pedro Retreat promises an unparalleled journey of healing and self-discovery. La Vida Divine stands as the world's sole Women BIPOC Queer-owned sanctuary for plant medicine, embodying our unwavering commitment to inclusivity. We warmly welcome guests of all backgrounds, embracing diversity in incarnations, orientations, races, genders, creeds, cultures, and economic statuses.



Jhoselyn Gaddy is a licensed registered nurse with over 20 years of experience, as well as a curandera with 12 years of experience. She is also a sacred sexuality guide, sexual health advocate, and certified tantra practitioner.
Jhoselyn is also a born-and-raised Ecuadorian indigenous practitioner who spent 9 years devoted to training under the tutelage of a traditional medicine man in the Shuar tradition - Taita TsenTsek. Additionallu, she is a plant medicine retreat facilitator and intuitive healer.
She has worked with clients of all ages, genders, and backgrounds in both Spanish and English, and finds joy in sharing her medical and holistic knowledge about healthy living, personal healing, and leading a spiritually and emotionally balanced life. She draws upon the ancient, sacred knowledge passed down to her from her South American Indigenous lineage while also incorporating her many years of western medicinal training.

Courtney "Gaddy" is a powerful force for healing and transformation. With a background in music, project management, and community activism, she brings a unique blend of skills and talents to the healing team. Her intuitive nature and spiritual insights make her a valuable member of the group, and her passion for helping others is evident in everything she does.
Gaddy's spiritual leadership has also been a source of inspiration for many. She has helped others navigate their shadow work and find healing through their own spiritual practices. Her recent experiences with plant medicine have further expanded her understanding of the spiritual realm and deepened her connection to the divine.

Evita is a Black, queer, femme, ethical non-monogamy coach, speaker, educator, and author. They are the creator of “Today’s Polyamory Reminder,” which has inspired over 60,000 followers.
They are the author of “A Polyamory Devotional-365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous", and is also the subject of the groundbreaking polyamorous documentary “Poly-Love”.
Evita began their journey with plant medicine alongside their polyamorous journey. They have sat with Jhoselyn and Courtney many times, with many different medicines.
Their experiences sitting with medicine have been pivotal to accelerating the deep changes necessary for them to embrace this new way of living and loving. Through medicine, they learned to be present with intensity, to release fear of change and endings, and to remember the oneness that we share with all beings.

Jessica Daylover is an experienced spiritual coach, polyamory educator (known on the internets as Remodeled Love), and a long-time advocate of psychedelic medicine. She has sat with Grandmother 7 times, and is eternally grateful for the grace Grandmother has shown her as a deeply messy human with so much damn shadow work to do.
She is also a highly trained healer, witch, and Usui Holy Fire Reiki master, with a BA in Philosophy and Sociology, and a minor in Gender Studies from UW-Madison.
Jessica's speciality is the intersection of the polyamorous path and shadow work.
She is extremely honored that Jhoselyn & Gaddy reached out for collaboration, and is very excited to work alongside them and her love Evita in order to help folks step into their fullest dreams of becoming sovereign lover.
★★★★★
“As a first timer, I was really looking for a retreat that would feel authentic, safe and supportive. I’m grateful to have found La Vida Divine when I did. As a Black woman, I was especially drawn to this retreat because it’s run by two women of color who are intentional about cultivating a healing space for some of the most marginalized communities. Jhoselyn, Gaddy, Savio, Jaime and the rest of the team have created a space that feels like you’re healing with family."
Lauren
La Vida Divine Retreat client
★★★★★
"I’ve been interested in experiencing Ayahuasca for years but I never found a place that seemed like a good fit. La Vida Divine was everything that I had hoped and I’m so glad I discovered it. Jhoselyn and Gaddy are phenomenal hosts and facilitators. They are available for communication before, during, and after the retreat. Knowledgeable in plant medicine and Western medicine, I always felt like I was safe and in good hands. Lodging was clean and comfortable and the meals were delicious. I felt well prepared for the ceremonies and the small group setting allowed for an intimate experience. It was a life-altering 10 days and I will be back."
Kimberly
La Vida Divine Retreat client
"We appreciate your concern in this arena.
By definition, cultural appropriation is the adoption or use of elements from a marginalized or minority culture by members of a dominant culture, typically without understanding, respect, or permission.
To bring clarity and understanding to this for you, I am a born-and-raised Ecuadorian indigenous practitioner. I spent 9 years devoted to training under the tutelage of a traditional medicine man in the Shuar tradition - Taita TsenTsek - who has not only given me permission but also continued support in sharing the knowledge, medicine, and culture with those whom I am called to serve. I have been working closely with Ayahuasca/Natem and other medicines for the past 15 years with utmost care and respect.
In my work and practice, I always name my teachers, continue to support the communities that allow me to do this work, and keep a deep relationship with my teachers.
This medicine has helped me and many other polyamorous people of all colors and backgrounds connect deeper to their own processes and decolonize their frames of thinking.
Jessica and Evita are assisting us in connecting those in the community with our work. We stand in integrity and continue to provide sane, brave, and safe-based practices for folks in all communities, with a focus on our marginalized people who often do not have access to this work."
- Goddess Jhoselyn

When is this happening?
Dates are TBD. We are waiting to see how many folks are interested. Once we see if there is enough interest to make a private retreat viable, we will host a webinar with more information.
How many spots are available for purchase?
There will be 7 spots available per cohort.
How much will this cost and what does it include?
We are still developing the packages, but the minimum package will be $3900. This will include:
Master Plant Ceremonies: (2 Ayahuasca 1 San Pedro, Temazcal)
Accommodations and Meals for 8 days
Traditional ancestral ceremonies
Movement, meditations, somatic practices.
Integrative experiences
Private transportation arrangement. (transport fee not included)
Private and group coaching each day with Evita and Jessica
Can just anyone purchase a spot?
No. It is not safe for everyone to journey with aya. All participants will have to interview online with the medicine woman and be approved for the journey. Your safety is very important to us.
Can my partner(s) be in the same cohort as me?
This is a nuanced question. We recommend meeting with Jessica and Evita before deciding on this. For some folx separate journeys will be more powerful.
Do you have other retreats in the US?
Yes, we are planning some in USA soon with other medicines.
Do you work with any other psychedelic medicines besides aya?
Yes, Jhoselyn works with San Pedro, Kambo, Psilocybin and MDMA.
Will medicine work magically solve all my problems and make me 'good' at polyamory?
No.
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