Rituals For Connection: Creating Security in Polyamory
Learn to create custom rituals to bring grounding, connection, and emotional safety—no matter how many partners, dates, or adventures are unfolding in your polyamorous life.
Even If You Love Polyamory, It’s Not Always Easy
Let’s be real—polyamory can bring extraordinary joy, but also comes with big feelings when our partners are on dates, building new connections, or exploring intimacy with others. No, you’re not failing at polyamory. You’re wired for connection and safety
The reality is, though, that our fears, core wounds, insecurities, & attachment styles can all be triggered while exploring polyamory. But together we can create rituals for connection to help us anchor into security, and place aloe over the wounds.
Common Polyamorous Struggles
(That Nobody Talks About)
Disconnection When Apart
That feeling of emptiness or spinning out when your partner is with someone else? It’s totally normal—but it doesn’t have to rule your life.
Jealousy Spirals
Trying to logic your way through jealousy rarely works. Addressing it with rituals can be a game changer.
Seeking Reassurance
Needing to hear 'we’re okay' on repeat? That’s your nervous system seeking safety, not weakness or failure.
Hoping Time Will Fix Insecurity
Without structure, time alone rarely soothes the nervous system. You need intentional rituals to feel truly secure.
Connection Doesn’t Just Maintain Itself
Most of us never learned how to nurture connection when our relationships are expanding, changing, or new energy is coming in. Especially in non-monogamy, maintaining that sense of closeness requires more than just communication—it needs structure.
A Secret of People Who Thrive in Polyamory
Predictable Rituals
Rituals create something to count on—touchpoints your brain and heart anticipate for safety and reassurance.
Grounding & Security
Intentional structure provides deep emotional grounding, so your nervous system can actually relax during changes.
Reinforced Connection
On both conscious and subconscious levels, rituals reinforce closeness—no matter how many relationships evolve or grow.
What You’ll Learn In This Workshop
via a set of pre-recorded lessons which can be done at your own pace, but designed to be done during a date night!
Why rituals are a big part of the secret sauce for polyamorous stability and safety
Discovering and addressing your personal fears in non-monogamy
The Magic Ritual Recipe—tools to create personalized rituals for your connection
How to soothe your nervous system and grow secure attachment—even with multiple partners
This isn’t about being perfect or never struggling—it’s about working with your body and mind, not against them.
You’ll Also Get
A practical, downloadable & printable workbook (to use solo or with partners)
Ongoing ritual ideas you can remix for your own relationship constellation
Guidance for tough moments so you can reconnect quickly
Intentional Relating
Polyamory Expert & Coach
This is my favorite workshop to recommend to clients who are needing a creative way to build more safety and connection in their poly relationships.
Chaneé Jackson Kendall
Evita Sawyers Coaching
Polyamory Expert & Coach
Jessica is passionate, warm, hilarious, and insightful as a teacher. I always walk away with my mind blown and something profound to consider when she teaches.
Evita Sawyers
Remodeled Love
Rituals For Connection creator
Creating customized rituals has been a special interest of mine since I was a child. It is no surprise to me that this workshop has helped so many folks bring aloe to their souls on this adventurous but often difficult polyamorous path.
Jessica Daylover
ABOUT THE CREATOR
Jessica Daylover
is the creator and educator behind Remodeled Love, and was named 1 of 10 Polyamory Experts to Follow on TikTok by Cosmo, and pretty fucking good at what she does by If I Do Say So Myself magazine just now. (But seriously though, Jessica has an extensive background as an educator, entertainer, and ceremonialist. The synthesis of all these passions has made this a stellar product for polyamorous partners who are seeking tangible ways to connect.)
