MISTAKES WERE MADE

A 3-hour webinar about

navigating the pitfalls of Relationship Anarchy

with honesty, humor, and hard-won insight.

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Writer & Non-Monogamy educator connecting the dots between society & relationships.

Gabrielle Smith

@ByGabrielleSmith

Creating a pragmatic guide to consensual non-monogamy so people can find their own best flavor of relationship.

Laura Boyle

@ReadyForPolyamory

Queer Trans Chicanx, movement storyteller, ecoerotic artist, certified s/x educator, polyamorous loverboy dedicated to liberatory praxis.

Che Che Luna

@CheCheLuna

Experiential educator trying to engage with healthy love through the relationship anarchist lens in way that invites others to explore without judgment.

Annie Undone

@Annie_Undone

Join four seasoned Relationship Anarchy educators for an unfiltered, laugh-through-the-cringe, deeply insightful webinar about the real mistakes we've made while practicing non-monogamy. In this three-hour event, we’ll walk you through the biggest pitfalls we’ve personally faceplanted into—jealousy spirals, communication breakdowns, boundary blunders, and more—and share the hard-won lessons that came out the other side. Whether you’re just starting out or years into your polyam journey, you’ll leave with practical tools, new language, and a lot of “oh thank god it’s not just me.”

Come for the wisdom, stay for the tea.

Purchase the seminar using our mutual aid, sliding scale pricing.

The function of sliding scale pricing is that those who have more pay more, so that those who are under-resourced can still access the resources they need while the educators are also paid equitably for their time.

We have set the value of this seminar at $75.

The sliding scale ranges from $20-$200. Please choose the price that best reflects the reality of your financial resources at this time.

FAQs

Has the live event passed?
- Yes, but purchasers will receive a copy of the unedited recording with AI captions immediately, and an intentionally-captioned copy eventually.
What if I'm not sure I'm a Relationship Anarchist?
- This event is a powerful way to learn emotional intelligence and relationship skills no matter your relationship style.
Is this relevant for monogmous people?
- Absolutely. You can be a monogamous Relationship Anarchist. In fact, one of our panelists is!
Were Ross & Rachel on a break?
- Ross and Rachel failed to communicate clearly the boundaries of their agreement. So, though each has a right to their feelings about what happened, ultimately they both need to take personal responsibility for the lack of clarity.

Mistakes Were Made is a product by Remodeled Love